Turnaround Intense Exchanges With Restorative, Collaborative Outcomes: Mary Reveals Insider Secrets To Diffuse The Driving Force Behind Bullying Behaviors (Without Losing Your Cool, Being Humiliated, Or Seen As Incompetent; Suffering A Loss Of Credibility, Respect And Regard!)
The following is a message for every any person who is afraid to lose credibility because of mishandling confrontational situations in front of others, who needs to hold firm to a peaceful, measured response AND WHO can’t give into the temptation to “let them have it” in order to “teach them a lesson!”
Turnaround Intense Exchanges With Restorative, Collaborative Outcomes: Mary Reveals Insider Secrets To Diffuse The Driving Force Behind Bullying Behaviors (Without Losing Your Cool, Being Humiliated, Or Seen As Incompetent; Suffering A Loss Of Credibility, Respect, And Regard!)
The following is a message for every any person who is afraid to lose credibility because of mishandling confrontational situations in front of others, who needs to hold firm to a peaceful, measured response AND WHO can’t give into the temptation to “let them have it” in order to “teach them a lesson!”
Turnaround Intense Exchanges With Restorative, Collaborative Outcomes: Mary Reveals Insider Secrets To Diffuse The Driving Force Behind Bullying Behaviors (Without Losing Your Cool, Being Humiliated, Or Seen As Incompetent; Suffering A Loss Of Credibility, Respect And Regard!)
The following is a message for every any person who is afraid to lose credibility because of mishandling confrontational situations in front of others, who needs to hold firm to a peaceful, measured response AND WHO can’t give into the temptation to “let them have it” in order to “teach them a lesson!”
Re: Diffusing Bully Behavior
Hi, I’m Mary Reynolds, an author and educational psychologist who has helped tens of thousands of people learn how to TurnAround intense individuals and concerning situations in 30 seconds or less—more often than not.
Based on my TurnAround coaching and consulting with leaders over the past forty years, I have gained insights into your experiences and the opportunities you are currently facing, particularly in meeting academic standards even when children’s BrainMinds are dysregulated from the effects of bullying.
You are an effective, inclusion-oriented leader of meaningful change.
However, I sense that you face opportunities with certain adults and children who test your authority and your limits daily!
As a result, your immediate need is to discover instantly effective Energy Hacks to create an empowering, self-sustaining impact with those who demand so much of your valuable time and energy.
Right this minute, you would be ecstatic if you knew, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that you could confidently and assuredly demonstrate in the heat of any moment, how best to TurnAround emotional upsets and quickly “collab” on solutions. The goal being: Your in, your out, and it’s restorative!
Unfortunately, you still need to figure out how to hold your energy and power with deliberately hurtful, unfiltered personalities.
You are also really frustrated by the fact that walking on eggshells and acquiescing doesn’t keep people from using bullying tactics to take over.
Plus, you still need the answer to this question before you can move forward: “How to remain calm, cool, and collected when on the receiving end of mixed signals or indirect communication?”
You are also still hung up on the idea that compassion weakens your long-term impact when you should be out bullying the bully to teach them they can never win with you.
In fact, when it comes to turning around intense exchanges with restorative, collaborative outcomes, you are convinced that belligerent, condescending, oppositional, entitled, unfiltered, know-it-alls actually want you to fail!
When all is said and done, you just want to seamlessly TurnAround even the most formidable personality with grace.
By mastering these essential hacks, you can transform concerning interactions into opportunities for long term growth and understanding.
I would like to invite you to check out my Self-Paced Online Course, Victim No More: Diffusing Bully Behavior (Campus Wide), so you can elegantly diffuse any and all bully behavior without losing your cool, being humiliated or seen as incompetent and suffering a loss of credibility, respect and regard.
But before we get into that, let me share a quick story with you…
There I was, always successful, powerful and strong in my professional life …
BUT when it came to the men in my personal life, I collapsed into powerlessness.
While trying to settle into my second marriage, my “Venus” pattern for responding to his “Mars” pattern of making provocative, if not contentious remarks was becoming magnified.
He’d say something I felt was inconsiderate, de-energizing, unfiltered and unnecessary, and my ire would get triggered and I’d get thrown off. Then I’d ruminate and my energy plummeted.
I often found myself acquiescing to maintain peace, despite feeling an undercurrent of unrest.
In my early relationship with my second husband, I encountered challenging dynamics that echoed my unresolved past.
We both had also experienced a difficult upbringing, which shaped our responses and interactions.
This cycle revealed deeper issues rooted in our histories, which left us both exhausted and ready to leave our new marriage.
Then, as if by chance, something miraculous happened …
One day, out-of-the blue, a light bulb went on in my mind and I remembered what I did with the at-risk kids I’d worked with.
A DEFINING MOMENT
So, instead of letting my ire win, I used my What, If, When Method: How to Confront Non-Confrontationally on him to get to the heart of whatever off-putting thing he was doing at the moment.
I’d ask my “what” question. He’d think for a moment, reach for it in his heart, and his answer was unexpected and tied to something I’d never have thought of or expected had I not asked.
Instantly it became crystal clear to me how to get to the heart of energetically infused emotionally triggering behaviors quickly by simply using my What, If, When Method. The miracle was realizing that by simply changing ONE THING I was doing, that together, we’d never feel victimized by our childhoods again!
The key to this puzzling behavior was to start bridging what I knew worked with at-risk kids over to my husband.
So, I started to stop myself the second I’d feel my ire coming up by something he was saying or doing, remembering that my plan to What, If, When It with him. But we didn’t stop there.
I then felt myself relax and feel more empowered while I waited for his answers to come.
His answers were profound and life changing for us both.
After that, I also decided to use my “What” questions with the distracting adults in my audiences who were inconsiderate, belligerent, condescending, oppositional, entitled, unfiltered, know-it-alls, instead of getting into a debate with them and lose them altogether.
Their heartfelt answers were palpable!
Bottom line:
We’re all just little kids in big bodies after all so I decided to start asking compassionate “What” questions like I always did with the kids in my classrooms who were at-risk of being lost!
In the end we were able to put a STOP to unproductive behaviors every single time with my compassionate WIW: What, If, When line of questioning.
If necessary, I’d followed with a “knock-your-socks-off” ONE-LINER guaranteed to stop them in their tracks, point blank, yet feeling like they were heard and understood. (My 7 Best One-Liners are INCLUDED in this training.)
Building on that success, we decided to create a Macro-Dose Online Course that teaches how to self- and co-regulate to remain calm, cool and collected when things are going sideways.
We call it “Victim No More: Diffusing Bully Behavior”
Re: Diffusing Bully Behavior
Hi, I’m Mary Reynolds, an author and educational psychologist who has helped tens of thousands of people learn how to TurnAround intense individuals and concerning situations in 30 seconds or less—more often than not.
Based on my TurnAround coaching and consulting with leaders over the past forty years, I have gained insights into your experiences and the opportunities you are currently facing, particularly in meeting academic standards even when children’s BrainMinds are dysregulated from the effects of bullying.
You are an effective, inclusion-oriented leader of meaningful change.
However, I sense that you face opportunities with certain adults and children who test your authority and your limits daily!
As a result, your immediate need is to discover instantly effective Energy Hacks to create an empowering, self-sustaining impact with those who demand so much of your valuable time and energy.
Right this minute, you would be ecstatic if you knew, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that you could confidently and assuredly demonstrate in the heat of any moment, how best to TurnAround emotional upsets and quickly “collab” on solutions. The goal being: Your in, your out, and it’s restorative!
Unfortunately, you still need to figure out how to hold your energy and power with deliberately hurtful, unfiltered personalities.
You are also really frustrated by the fact that walking on eggshells and acquiescing doesn’t keep people from using bullying tactics to take over.
Plus, you still need the answer to this question before you can move forward: “How to remain calm, cool and collected when on the receiving end of mixed signals or indirect communication?”
You are also still hung up on the idea that compassion weakens your long-term impact when you should be out bullying the bully to teach them they can never win with you.
In fact, when it comes to turning around intense exchanges with restorative, collaborative outcomes, you are convinced that belligerent, condescending, oppositional, entitled, unfiltered, know-it-alls actually want you to fail!
When all is said and done, you just want to seamlessly TurnAround even the most formidable personality with grace.
By mastering these essential hacks, you can transform concerning interactions into opportunities for long term growth and understanding.
I would like to invite you to check out my Self-Paced Online Course, Victim No More: Diffusing Bully Behavior (Campus Wide), so you can elegantly diffuse any and all bully behavior without losing your cool, being humiliated or seen as incompetent and suffering a loss of credibility, respect and regard.
But before we get into that, let me share a quick story with you…
There I was, always successful, powerful and strong in my professional life …
BUT when it came to the men in my personal life, I collapsed into powerlessness.
While trying to settle into my second marriage, my “Venus” pattern for responding to his “Mars” pattern of making provocative, if not contentious remarks was becoming magnified.
He’d say something I felt was inconsiderate, de-energizing, unfiltered and unnecessary, and my ire would get triggered and I’d get thrown off. Then I’d ruminate and my energy plummeted.
I often found myself acquiescing to maintain peace, despite feeling an undercurrent of unrest.
In my early relationship with my second husband, I encountered challenging dynamics that echoed my unresolved past.
We both had also experienced a difficult upbringing, which shaped our responses and interactions.
This cycle revealed deeper issues rooted in our histories, which left us both exhausted and ready to leave our new marriage.
Then, as if by chance, something miraculous happened …
One day, out-of-the blue, a light bulb went on in my mind and I remembered what I did with the at-risk kids I’d worked with.
So, instead of letting my ire win, I used my What, If, When Method: How to Confront Non-Confrontationally on him to get to the heart of whatever off-putting thing he was doing at the moment.
I’d ask my “what” question. He’d think for a moment, reach for it in his heart, and his answer was unexpected and tied to something I’d never have thought of or expected had I not asked.
Instantly it became crystal clear to me how to get to the heart of energetically infused emotionally triggering behaviors quickly by simply using my What, If, When Method. The miracle was realizing that by simply changing ONE THING I was doing, that together, we’d never feel victimized by our childhoods again!
The key to this puzzling behavior was to start bridging what I knew worked with at-risk kids over to my husband.
So, I started to stop myself the second I’d feel my ire coming up by something he was saying or doing, remembering that my plan to What, If, When It with him. But we didn’t stop there.
I then felt myself relax and feel more empowered while I waited for his answers to come.
His answers were profound and life changing for us both.
After that, I also decided to use my “What” questions with the distracting adults in my audiences who were inconsiderate, belligerent, condescending, oppositional, entitled, unfiltered, know-it-alls, instead of getting into a debate with them and lose them altogether.
Their heartfelt answers were palpable!
Bottom line:
We’re all just little kids in big bodies after all so I decided to start asking compassionate “What” questions like I always did with the kids in my classrooms who were at-risk of being lost!
In the end we were able to put a STOP to unproductive behaviors every single time with my compassionate WIW: What, If, When line of questioning.
If necessary, I’d followed with a “knock-your-socks-off” ONE-LINER guaranteed to stop them in their tracks, point blank, yet feeling like they were heard and understood. (My 7 Best One-Liners are INCLUDED in this training.)
Building on that success, we decided to create a Macro-Dose Online Course that teaches how to self- and co-regulate to remain calm, cool and collected when things are going sideways.
We call it “Victim No More: Diffusing Bully Behavior”
And that’s why I’m so excited to share this with you so you can get these types of results too!
Introducing…
Victim No More:
Diffusing Bully Behavior
for Leaders Championing a Better Way
EFFECTIVELY A BETTER WAY
EFFECTIVELY A BETTER WAY
“After following your Leader’s Guide, I can tell you – having taught for 28 years – when you stand in front of that class and you know have ’em and it’s going to be all right, I stood there and I thought it’s going to be all right. And then quite frankly, I thought, ‘Showtime!’ That’s so awesome.”
Continued … “The Victim No More program is a game changer for educators and parents. It effectively combines research on bullying and brain function, promoting engaging discussions among faculty about their roles in tackling bullying.
The structured format encourages reflection and interaction, helping teachers understand underlying student issues.
The overwhelmingly positive feedback from my staff highlights its impact. It’s a different perspective that works immediately.
By investing in this program, we can create safer school environments and empower educators to support students effectively.”
“It was so easy and appropriate to use. I highly recommend it!”
*At the time of this recording, VNM UTrain&Coach Program provided PPTXs. It is now NEWLY UPDATED and LAVISHLY ILLUSTRATED as a UClick&Play with an engaging Leader’s Guide.*
*At the time of this recording, VNM UTrain&Coach Program provided PPTXs. It is now NEWLY UPDATED and LAVISHLY ILLUSTRATED as a UClick&Play with an engaging Leader’s Guide.*
LEARNING ENGLISH IDIOMS: What is a push-over?
My friend on Facebook said: “Don’t get mad at me but here is what I think… you’re a pushover!”
I said: “A pushover??? What do you mean?” (English is my second language and I might misinterpret things sometimes.)
My friend said: “You have no backbone! Anyone can push you over out of their way with no trouble!! You’re a doormat because you let people walk all over you!!”
You need to outdo the bullies and be the bigger bully!”
I said: “I understand that you think I’m a pushover, however, I disagree… I’m not a bully, but I’m not a victim either… I learned from Mary Robinson Reynolds exactly how to effectively stand up for myself!“
Mary’s reply: EXCELLENT empowered response using one of my best one liners! … you have taken your learning seriously! And thank you so much for sharing Marjorie… and for the difference you are making!
What brings you to this course?
Rich from Michigan: What brings me to this course is that through Mary’s introductory training I’ve realized, “I’m the bigger bully!“
I’ve been having a lot of conflict in my life over the past two months in exactly what your description said about being the bigger bully.
I had a conflict with a bully boundary situation. Boundaries were not spelled out and the person breaking boundaries didn’t have a clear picture of boundaries because they weren’t provided. Because of this they became a bully about it, and I responded by becoming a bigger bully.
AND when I heard you explain that we try to out bully the bully I said, “Yes that’s me!”
So, this is personal. I want to use this to break my own behavior of having become the bigger bully.
I want to learn new ways of working with bully behaviors that I don’t become a bigger bully in the process!
Every day, 160,000 children miss school because of a fear of being bullied.
(U. S. Department of Justice, National Association of School Psychologists)
LuAnn Barr writes: I want to share my experience with my husband, a middle school art teacher who faces escalating challenges with the increasingly confrontational, bullying, and defiant student behavior.
The mounting pressure from administration, coupled with extensive budget cuts, feels to us like a form of bullying directed at educators. To support him, I purchased the companion book to this course, The Power of Compassion. While he’s naturally compassionate, he struggles to cope with hostility, stemming from a childhood spent in a bullying environment.
I believe there is potential for interest on a higher level at his school. Wouldn’t it be profound if the staff at his middle school could experience your Victim No More as a group training? I know the school principal and believe there may be an interest in improving constructive communication between students, their families, staff, and faculty. Please let me know how I can assist.
I would very much like to foster more compassion in my community by helping others to learn how to communicate and think with compassion. What can I do to become a spokesperson for your training program? Can I lead staff training programs?
Answer: YES! Invest in yourself, and practice delivering Victim No More. Then UTrain!
LuAnn Barr writes: I want to share my experience with my husband, a middle school art teacher who faces escalating challenges with the increasingly confrontational, bullying and defiant student behavior.
The mounting pressure from administration, coupled with extensive budget cuts, feels to us like a form of bullying directed at educators. To support him, I purchased the companion book to this course, The Power of Compassion. While he’s naturally compassionate, he struggles to cope with hostility, stemming from a childhood spent in a bullying environment.
I believe there is potential for interest on a higher level at his school. Wouldn’t it be profound if the staff at his middle school could experience your Victim No More as a group training? I know the school principal and believe there may be an interest in improving constructive communication between students, their families, staff and faculty. Please let me know how I can assist.
I would very much like to foster more compassion in my community by helping others to learn how to communicate and think with compassion. What can I do to become a spokesperson for your training program? Can I lead staff training programs?
Answer: YES! Invest in yourself, and practice delivering Victim No More. Then UTrain!
Listen in as Mary is interviewed for an article about her Victim No More. Key points:
“Hi Mary, I bought your Victim No More: Diffusing Bully Behaviors Self Learning Training. Wow, it was powerful!!!“
– Jill Hendrickson, Author of Weight Loss, Italian Style!
“Hi Mary, I bought your Victim No More: Diffusing Bully Behaviors Self Learning Training.
Wow, it was powerful!!!“
– Jill Hendrickson, Author of Weight Loss, Italian Style!
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Free your mind, heart and schedule from having to deal with bullish people.
Get FULL access to this Video Course’s Entire Library, so you have everything you need at your fingertips 24/7!
It’s imperative that you manage yourself in the moment. And you don’t do this trying to memorize pages and pages of politically correct phrases! Or scripts you will never ever remember in the heat of the moment.
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Being able to skillfully handle emotionally triggered individuals with confidence, grace and ease.
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Just in case you were wondering – if Victim No More: Diffusing Bully Behavior doesn’t help you nip bullying behaviors in the bud (snap them out of it) quickly, easily and – get this – compassionately! … if it doesn’t understand fully the Role of Your Attitudinal Energy that is in play and how you can adjust it quickly to diffuse any bullying behavior in 30 seconds or less … or if it fails to help you to step up and be strong without resorting to the “I’m the bigger bully” tactics that only work to keep things escalating to an even bigger, hard to come back from, explosion … then we’ll refund your money. No Questions Asked! All the risk is squarely on our shoulders. You have nothing to lose and all the success to gain with your Diffusing Bully Behavior results!
Victim No More is field-tested and backed by replicable evidence-based research.
Mary teaches the class through 13 – 12-20-minute segments Lavishly Illustrated Video presentation.
Again, this is NOT your typical “how to ‘come at’ the bullish individuals by being the bigger bully” prescriptive class.
We will be starting from the beginning: the
ENERGY of an attitude and how it can inflame and trigger hurtful actions and reactions.
This instructional information has an extensive, comprehensive scientific-based and has been field-tested with tens of thousands of people of all ages, circumstances and cultures.
The latest brain research explains what happens to a person’s ability to think and behave in the face of intense situations.
And I’m going to show you exactly what to “think” to come up over intense situations productively to bring about the greatest chance for a peaceful outcome!
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