[Own Your Life] Victim with Certain people?

Dear Difference Maker,

We inadvertently keep ourselves in a victim mindset every time we tell ourselves is that there are just certain people who we will never be able to CONNECT with synergistically.

This kind of “self talk” is exactly what keeps you in stuck and today I’m excited to share a special resource with you that will help you get out of this stressful, energy zapping Catch-22.

Reaching out …

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Always a victim with certain people?
Excerpt from Connecting with Colors: Synergize Your Life Self-Paced Course  

Does it feel like you have people in your life that constantly push you to the ground with their negative attitudinal energy, then put their foot (metaphorically) on your shoulder keeping you down all the while yelling, “Get up!”

That no matter what you say you are instantly uncomfortable – if not completely fearful – when you have to communicate with them?

Here’s the SIMPLE Solution that I’ve put together for you!

We’re making this far more difficult than it needs to be.

You absolutely don’t need to know what’s going on with the 90% below the surface with anybody, anywhere, at anytime.

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Meaning that you don’t need to have a counseling background or know about anybody’s childhood, you don’t need to know what happened to anybody last year, or 20 years ago… it does not matter what baggage any one carries!

I liken the solutions we seek in CONNECTING harmoniously and productively to Ockham’s razor (also spelled Occam’s razor, but attributed to 14th-century English logician, William of Ockham) …

  • Ockham’s razor is the idea that, in trying to understand something, getting unnecessary information out of the way is the fastest way to the solution.
  • Ockham’s razor is a philosophical or scientific principle according to which the best explanation of an event is the one that is the simplest, using the fewest assumptions or hypotheses.

The Key to positively impacting ANY emotionally intense situation is: stop judging and start connecting in ways that are deliberately understanding and compassionate.

ALL THAT MATTERS is that you FOCUS on the 10% that’s going on right here right now and you learn to DIAL IN whatever personality color style they are speaking in – right in this moment!

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So the 10% that you DO NEED TO KNOW is this…

Personality Styles are SIMPLE TO NAVIGATE when you simply learn how to Dial-In whatever Color Style people are in during the time that you are reaching out to connect.

Instead of working so hard to control the people and situations of your life – step into this opportunity in your life to invest in taking a short amount of time to learn how to DIAL your way IN to effective and synergistic communication.

Take a week and learn the 4 easy to remember Color Personality Style Descriptions, Secondary Colors Combos, the 7 Life Areas of Interest and the ONE Technique that will remedy any and all intense situations.

To learn how you and your colleagues, friends and loved ones can all learn how to easily and effortlessly Dial In each other’s Color Styles to enjoy the very best relationships can offer go to:  ConnectingWithColors.com and check out my Connecting With Colors: SYNERGIZE Every Relationship In Your Life Program.

I encourage you to invest in yourself and your happiness … don’t delay, start learning today!

Now you can see your entire groups PSP test results.  Watch this … 

You can be ready to send out access codes to your colleagues right away before your next team meeting.  As the tests are taking your Team Report will be generated …

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You will have the option of keeping the information until the next meeting or have everyone receive their PSP Reports before the next meeting so they can start getting their own insights into how others are seeing them.

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Isn’t it time to get everyone working together instead of constantly being at cross-purposes?

==> Be the colleague everyone wants to work with and for
==> Boost productivity and employee performance
==> Ignite enthusiasm and excitement in your team

Find out how CONNECTING communication can instantly boost morale!

No matter what environment you’re in, chances are your colleagues get stressed out … burned out … and feel disconnected. As a member of the team, you probably feel the same way from time to time. You know that leads to lower morale, decreased productivity, diminishing performance, and ultimately a decline in job security.

Oftentimes “Color Style” communication is the number one culprit to these feelings. Misunderstandings lead to conflict. A lack of information leaves people feeling in the dark or confused. In short, bad communication plummets morale.

Thankfully there’s an easy solution.  Quantity pricing for PSPs – Personality Style Profiles are available at: ConnectingwithColors.com/PSPs

Today is a great the day to step up and own your life …

3 ways to own your life!

The time is NOW to GEAR UP for your SPRING & SUMMER retreats, Face2Face inservices and/or professional development training and I’d welcome the opportunity to train your group on TEAM SYNERGY with my Color Personality Style Way … HOWEVER I’ve also created a Self-Paced Online Course AND a UTrain program where you can take charge right now and DIY it!

To learn how you and your colleagues, friends and loved ones can all learn how to easily and effortlessly Dial In each other’s Color Styles to enjoy the very best relationships can offer then check out my Connecting With Colors: SYNERGIZE Every Relationship In Your Life Program. (Includes 10 PSPs)

To learn how you and your colleagues, friends and loved ones can all learn how to easily and effortlessly Dial In each other’s Color Styles to enjoy the very best relationships can offer take charge and stop waiting on someone else to fix this for you with my Self-Paced Online Course …

Got Mega Stress with your people at work?  Stop struggling and just get it handled with my UTrain (Includes 20 PSPs) and DIY it: Do-It-Yourself …

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Give everyone my book!  Check out our book PACKAGEs and enjoy huge SAVINGS so you can get everybody on the same page and DE-stress the culture of your work and home environments.

Grab my easy to read and quickly apply book Connecting with Colors: Discover the Transformational Synergy of Personality Color Styles to Create Harmonious Relationships at Work, Home & Everywhere! and FEEL better fast by GETTING in CONTROL of your life!

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This book stands on it’s own and/or can be used as a companion to my DO IT YOURSELF – Connecting with Colors Personality Styles UTrain Program – for your In-Service needs.

Click here to invest in yourself and your happiness …
don’t delay, start learning today!

 

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